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Western and Asian Men's Preferences I'm borrow this title from inkywings’ question, ‘Asian male f*tish?’ This is an additional and some alterations to my respond to her question. It’s an old question that being jumped to the Recent Topics in Advice Line’, but never appeared again when I checked it out. So I searched under inkywings and found it. This question of hers was dated on 23 April 2003! And I add in another related issue, on White men’s views on White women and Asian women. *************************** Inkywings question ‒ Asian male f*tish? I was wondering, how do the asian guys feel out there about white women? I find myself always attracted to them, but I'm always wondering what they think of me, if they think being a different race is a barrier? ***************************** I too, am still looking for the correct answers with concrete evidences for this matter. Since I worked in the nightclubs last time, entertaining men from all over the world, I learnt about their likes and dislikes. But those were not enough. 3 different Asian men gave 3 different answers, 3 different White men gave 3 different answers. OK, I sum them up. Majority, if not all, Asian men preferred Asian girls to Caucasian or White girls. I had asked many of the Asian . The Japanese prejudicially generalized that the White girls were too big in size, therefore they had bigger or wider va*inas, in which they’d feel loose when having s*x with them. They said like throwing a carrot into the Pacific Ocean! My goodness, what a joke! And that Asian men generally disliked women who were taller then them. (That I too, with my height was in trouble although I was not a White girl). Also, they said White girls were hairy, too promiscuous and too bold, unlike Asian women who were shy, modest, feminine, with smoother skins and to them, hardly promiscuous. (Not true). I had an interesting conversation with a White . Here are his views. He, an American told me that the pr**ate p*rts of the White girls were stinky! Therefore, having o*al s*x on these women were not pleasant at all. But Asian girls didn’t have that problem, so he enjoyed it a lot. True? Not true? I'm clueless to this day. That also did not sound reasonable. You see, Asian women dislike to touch their pr*vate p*rts. I've been wondering if the Asian women, the non-prostitutes, know about the right ways to wash and douche, since they dislike touching their themselves. But of course, the White girls are more learnt and informed, hence they should be cleaner and more hygienic. And yes, majority of White men too, preferred Asian women, who were smaller, slimmer, more docile, subservient and modest, relatively. Another a German, said that German women were too huge, like Jersey cows! (Whut?). And another interestingly hilarious excerpt that I found in the book ‘Night Market’ (bukan pasar malam la), by Ryan Bishop and Lillian S. Robinson. Well, it’s cruelly prejudiced, I know. But I couldn’t hold back from laughter when reading it! It was about a Californian man who was stranded in California and couldn’t get to Thailand, his paradise, as the airplanes were fully booked. Then some of his buddies there tried to set him with a White woman named Sue. But that irritated him more. And finally when he got back to Bangkok, Thailand, he told his pals in the bars there about how he was set up with that White woman in California prior to that. ************************************* I say to this guy (his buddy in California). ‘Yeah, I see Sue. But I ain’t sure you see what I'm seeing. She’s old meat. You gotta be kiddin’. In Thailand, they toe-tag her. Take her to the morgue.....’ I told him straight, man. No bull***ts of life. ‘You want to avoid sc***ing any women over 16,....’ Then he starts going into this creepy moral sh**. ‘Man, how can you **** a young enough to be your ?’ This is coming from guys who think nothing but climbin’ on one of these sw*athogs and pumping something with an a** the size of a first class plane seat. They’re judging me. So I gave then my standard answer. ‘These girls gotta eat, don’t they? I'm putting bread on their plate. I'm making a contribution. They’d starve to death unless they w**red. Not something you can say about an old sw*athog like Sue.....’ I couldn’t stand it....I was going nuts in Caifornia. Man, it was ****ing awful. I was phoning the airlines 2 weeks in. Get me the **** back to Bangkok. Can you believe they were fully booked? I was ****ing stranded with sw*athogs.....I didn’t get l*id once. ******************************* My goodness. (PA slapping her head). Did these guys have brains and eyes? Calling a woman big, or fat, or over weight is hurtful. Dieting is hurtful. Seeing the weight increases on the bathroom scale is also hurtful. So, based on above points, both Western men and Asian men prefer Asian women to Western women. But think again. Asians are still a colored race. Hence, Asians are no doubt the 2nd class citizens in Western countries. So, how could the Western men prefer women of a 2nd class citizens? So, I believe that the Western men who like Asian women are just a small number in an entire Western country. Majority of White men still prefer White women. So, every reader there, do give some opinions. Picture ‒ Bar girls waiting to be seated in Thailand. Puteri_ayu 
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3/6/2007 7:11 am |
there are many beautiful white girls and many are very clean.. the US one's that know place a lot of emphasis on being clean. the feminine hygene section of the stores move a great deal of female products. white women come in all sizes from petite,m to big bodies, just as other women do.. I think m=some mens facination with Asian women is their young look and smaller bodies,, many men get a kick out of imagining he is with some kid or something and end up disrespecting the fully adult woman think she's some toy. I see Asian men with white women and I';ve seen asian men with very large women and some with small women.. in the economic saavy section people eat healthy and keep their exercie in check and the white women maintain a good figure.. but with any people when you get into region that people are less heath conscienous about what they eat they can become obese, no matter if they live in Beverly Hills or Bel aire.. I don't think any one group likes \bsexo?\b any more than the other.. people just like to have a mate that takes as much time with them as they take with their mate.. and care about each other's pleasure.. that's a world wide factor.. and has been traced back to early history of \bsexo?\b... and the many chaning concepts people have about \bsexo?\b.. now societies world over are more in turne to know that \bsexo?\b is not just for the man but equally so for the woman... I think any place you go.. if men think of women as some mindless receptacle, then the women are less motivated to be sexually proactive.. and these men who think the women of Thailand love them, don't know these women are working to survive, and many of them come to actually hate the men who come and think of them as just some play toy and \bsexo?\b novelty, they grow to resent such men and they can come to truly hate dealing with foreigners and only do so for the need to feed their family.. It's very tragic that these men go there and look at these women as if they are in a toy store.. never takaing the time to get to know whom she is, what are her dreams, what is her life like what concerns she has and what things hurt her heart and insult her self dignity.. many of these women hate for a guy to come pushing their head down, and the jumping on them and falling asleep and awaken and try the same cycle over and over and think that just the money makes him able to treat her any way he wants to.. and it's not true.. a man must or should if he has dignity treat her as a individual person worthy of respect in all degree's.. I wonder what kind of animal would a man be to just want to put himself inside a woman and has no concern to know whom she is, what her life is and what her feeling are and how to respect her personal dignity.. I don't care if it is a transaction.. why abandon his and her dignity for the sake of pleasure.. you can share pleasure and respect the dignity of a person.. regardless whom and where you are.. I detest any man who treat women so disrespectful... regardless where the woman is from and what her hardships and needs are .. aor what business she engages to make her life work.. she is not being a theif, nor is she being a murduous criminal.. so don't teat them like one.
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3/6/2007 7:11 am |
i like white women, Asian women, latin women , black women...etc.. and see beautiful women in all groups..
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3/6/2007 7:13 am |
I do have a preference for women who don't shave between their legs.. that's just my personal thing.. I think nature made it to look wonderful with the natural hair being there.
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3/6/2007 7:51 am |
PA.... good post... its true about thailand....many white blokes here also like bangkok... very rarely would men like a girl taller than them.
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3/6/2007 4:05 pm |
Well PA it took me a while to read your post but I think I got it. The narrowmindedness of some guys to put women in boxes like trinkets. To be segregated and taken out to be played with at will. I think people do have preferences over physique etc but to generalise about cultures,ethnicity, habits and activities is a bit dim. For some guy to say all white women have big (aff censor) is a bit stupid. Maybe its them which are too small  ? To say that oral is better on one culture than another? There is something to be said around diets on this one as we all secrete different toxins. Men with high salty diets...enough said on that one. However labelling everyone becuase of their ethnicity again dim.With hygiene if you have access to the products then yes you will buy them but again I see this as an individual thing not cultural. I've been homeless in the past and worked with the homeless and believe me if you have a basic idea about what is clean then regardless of your situation you will strive to keep that up. We come in all shapes and sizes and telling a woman she is too big or too thin is one of the most ignorant and harmful things that anyone can do to another human being. It says 'your not good enough' Maybe mr california didn't get laid because he was an egotistical idiot more then anything else.
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3/8/2007 6:41 pm |
quoting qmyx.....but all body oders....it's driven by diet, not by how "clean" Asian women are. On this point....you are RIGHT ON ! Others are well said but.....those I will add on ..... later in the day.
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Different size and shapes...not all fits all... I think the most important thing is the hygienic part!...Cleanliness inside and out!
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