沒有過不去的事情，只有過不去的心情
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Posted:Nov 29, 2009 5:34 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2009 6:54 pm 48288 Views
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沒有過不去的事情，只有過不去的心情
==== 转自大雄
有一個故事…………
在一座高山上有兩間廟，
甲廟的和尚們經常吵架，
互相敵視，生活痛苦；
乙廟的和尚們，常一團和氣，
個個笑容滿面，生活快樂。
廟的住持便好奇的前往請教乙廟的小和尚：
甲廟住持正感疑惑時，忽見一位和尚匆匆由外歸來，
走進大廳時…不慎滑了一跤，
正在拖地的和尚立刻跑了過去，扶起他說：
『對不起！都是我的錯，把地擦的太濕了！』
站在大門口的和尚，也跟著跑進來帶著歉意說：
『對不起！都是我的錯，沒有告訴您大廳正在拖地。』
『都是我的錯，只怪我自己不小心，走路太匆促
前來請教的甲廟住持看到這一幕，心領神會，
他已經知道答案了!
您知道了嗎？
人們往往為了保護自己而與人爭吵或推卸責任，
殊不知認錯未必是輸，
因為認錯不但能表現出個人修養，
反省自己激勵向上，
甚至可以化暴戾為祥和。
朋友之間發生衝突，如有一方能先認錯，
戰火必然馬上平息一半。
人的一生，總會扮演各種不同的角色：
我們必須檢討自己是否未盡教養之責；
公司裡，當屬下績效不佳時，
我們必須檢討自己在教導管理方法上是否出了問題；
社會上，當大家責怪環境惡劣時，
我們必須檢討自己是否就是那個破壞環境的人。
轉換一下角色，今日的您或許是來日的我，
設身處地為對方著想也反省自己，
那麼，處理事情的模式將會是另外一番風貌。
渺小的我們或許並無能力為世局扭轉乾坤，
但若每個生命個體能培養勇於認錯、
我很欣賞的一位主管，常常說一句話：
「沒有過不去的事情，只有過不去的心情。」
隨著年紀越長，越懂得這句話的涵意。
對於一些不愉快的事情，
我覺得過了就算的原因，
不是想法變得多麼成熟，
主要是因為人生太短了。
我知道
放過自己，讓生活過得快樂舒服，
不想一直數落著同樣的事情，
掉入憂慮煩惱的循環中打轉。
經歷發生遺憾事情的過去，
更加懂得珍惜平安快樂的現在。
我瞭解
不需要每件事都以指責立場不同的人來當做結論。
我們已經擁有如此美好的現在，
就不需要花時間在怨懟往事上。
讓我們把能量放在對的地方，
努力創造更美滿幸福的未來吧！
或許
我們等的是 … 時間
等時間
讓自己成長改變 ~ 幸福滿溢傳遞愛
THE END
生命不是用來尋找答案，
也不是用來解決問題的，
它是用來快樂的過生活。
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Give You My Dream
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Posted:Nov 16, 2009 6:54 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2009 2:33 pm 50651 Views
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Give You My Dream
Each day passes by and I know more and more,
why I love thee with my heart and soul
I feel you inside me
You smile beings me joy,
You thoughts make me wonder
You laugh make me laugh
You tears make me cry
Wherever I look, I see you.
In the moon, and stars,
clearly visible on a cold starry night.
In the slow flowing waters on the water,
peacefully passing by the tree-lined waterway.
A force, like a beautiful song which carries from here to there
In my mind, a beautiful journey
A dream I would rather share with you is
to live with of our life together!
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向日葵
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Posted:Nov 8, 2009 1:50 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2009 5:05 am 52079 Views
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向日葵
初遇你的夏季
向日葵开得灿烂
金灿灿的色彩
让我们的日子明亮而温暖
在长久的别离里
那些回忆结成种子
一粒粒挂满我的梦之树
丰盈而饱满
我把它们种在心里
用思念和爱来浇灌
它们开始成长，开花
在我的诗歌里芳香满园！
The Sunflower
That summer I first met you
The sunflower were blooming
That shining golden color
Make our time bright and warm
In our long separated days
Those memories fruit to be seeds
Every night hang on my dream trees
They are plump and rich
I plant these seeds in my heart
Water them with miss and love
They begin to grow and bloom
Perfume the yard of my poems!
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The poem from Bear
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Posted:Nov 7, 2009 2:11 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2009 4:56 pm 51327 Views
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The poem from Bear
In a journey of a day,
I choose you.
I see your smile,
like sunshine.
I see your hair,
like a weeping willow.
In a journey of a month,
I choose you.
I see your heart,
like pure jade.
I see your love,
like clear blue water in the Pacific.
In a journey of a year,
I choose you.
There is a part of me that is renewed
by your fresh approach to life,
and your rational outlook,
and your nature of helping others
In a journey of a lifetime,
I have chosen you.
You give me happiness and peace,and companionship
that make me smile deep inside,
your radiant imprint left in me
so I am not blue any more!
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When the love comes
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Posted:Oct 27, 2009 3:03 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2009 3:26 am 44161 Views
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当爱来临
当爱来临
绿叶会变成鲜花
鲜花会变成果实
当爱来临
石头会变成沙子
沙子会变成水滴
当爱来临
即使外面雪花飞舞
我仍是你心中那枚耀眼的红叶！
When the love comes
When the love comes
The leaves turn into flowers
The flowers turn into fruit
When the love comes
The stones turn into sand
The sand turns into water
When the love comes
Even the snow covers the whole world
I am still that shining red leaf in your mind!
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The kiss of Autumn
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Posted:Oct 27, 2009 2:38 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2009 4:58 pm 44056 Views
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秋 之 吻
因为温暖的阳光
因为柔和的微风
花儿们在微笑
怀抱甜蜜的春梦
夕阳道不透这一角红尘
却对她们的笑容沉醉
忍不住的热吻
留下了满脸火红的唇印!
The kiss of Autumn
Because the warm sunshine
Because the tender breeze
The flowers are smiling
with their sweet spring dreams
The sun cannot guess their thought
But loves them so much
It kisses them eagerly
And leaves the red lip print on their faces
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TO My Homeland
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Posted:Sep 30, 2009 2:06 am
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2009 2:06 am 44171 Views
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To My Homeland
----60 years birthday
When I with you,
eternity is a step away
my love continus to grow
with each passing day
This treasure of love
I cherish within my soul
How much I love,
you will never really know
whenever we part
miss is like the tide
it cannot stop and control
rages deeply inside my heart
So these seven words
I will tell you
Forever and always
I will love you!
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Oversea Calling
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Posted:Sep 25, 2009 9:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2009 1:55 am 44858 Views
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Oversea Calling
I call your name day and night,
My voice flies through the mountains and rivers,
echoes in the heaven-----
My pia, my pia, my pia.
Although you are at the another end of the Earth,
It can reach your deep inner heart,
Make you cannot help replying and replying---
Yes, yes, yes, I am here, my darling!
越洋电话
我日夜呼唤着你的名字
我的声音穿越千山万水
回荡在整个天宇----
我的爱人， 我的爱人， 我的爱人！
尽管你远在天涯，
它仍能抵达你的心底
让你忍不住回应又回应----
是的， 我在这儿， 我的爱人！
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One Day Soldier
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Posted:Aug 29, 2009 7:23 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2009 3:53 am 48829 Views
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One Day Soldier
Today was a wonderful day!
In the morninmg, it was sunshine, we (20 person) went to a village to do one kind of special outdoor activity----development traning!
We jioned in the army, wore the military clothes, weaponed with the laser guns. Then 10 person formed a group, two groups acted counterworks, called A and B. In the first bout, A was in the fourth floor, B would capture their place. I belonged to B group. In this battle, I had no experience, only hit one target but was shot 5 times.
In the second bout, we would resue one hostage from A group. I got rich experience from the first time and gained the rich harvest. I killed 20 targets.
Unfortunately, I was shot one time by our own member.
In the third bout, we would protect our leader among us from the harm. I could not protect myself well, after hit 9 persons , I lost my life.
In the last bout, it was a mess battle. We fought together, all are enemies, I was busy in hiding myself and observed who would come , like a sniper. At last, I hit 2 persons and was shot two times. Very fair!
An interesting day!
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Happy Lover's Day!
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Posted:Aug 26, 2009 7:37 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2009 2:15 am 48807 Views
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Today is the Chinese Lover's Day!
In the afternoon, I went out to sat by the small pond close to my
room. I saw the fish swim in the clouds, I saw the bamboo dance in the
wind, I saw the flowers smile under the sunshine. I heard the breeze
blow through the trees, I heard the birds sing on the branches, I
heard the music from my phone... ...
At that moment, my heart was filled with sweet memories with you!
Though our hands depart, our hearts hold together!
Happy Lover's Day!
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