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GoldmanHuangShan 68M
2531 posts
11/24/2007 12:37 pm

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11/24/2007 8:26 pm

why can't people get hitched


if its not good to be alone,why can't they get hitched?....being alone into age is not exactly a pleasant thing and can be quite scarry at times....but we have a choice not to be alone so why not get hitched quickly?....perhaps the plentiful of chinese here knows that better and the moment they are on to you, they asked first would you get married before you could even think about friendship.....so they pop the serious question much ahead and put you off? But then its their honest truth...but most men here accordingly to them are just out for fun.

OK...if you get hitched...would you still be here? perhaps when you hv blogged for yrs..but that may not be a good idea else he/she may not like time stolen for being here.

GoldmanHuangShan 68M

11/24/2007 8:26 pm

Mark...at least if two golf, there is a flight.....but most time, men are golf widower....an 18 with drive and meal takes up the whole day and after few years...still cant below 18...terrible progress...as for the 7km walk...that is better done with a woman into the woods...at least when kinky ideas struck, some adventures can be tried...

On this net....fun in for in betw serious writings.... nay not specialising in any area to blog as this is a dating site whre ppl come looking for marriage material rather than friendship development.

Good luck to yr stay in China.

Goldman


Ariande 57M
165 posts
11/24/2007 4:03 pm

Goldman,

There does seem to be a common thread of internet dating behaviour;
-men seeking all possible avenues of friendship to turn into marriage
-women squeezing every friendship into marriage or no marriage opportunity?

I suggest that you don't take the whole internet dating thing too seriously, take up golf
at least that way,
when you are married,
you will both be playing in the same direction!

Blogging is a personal thing, it may take up less time than the average round of 18 holes, but it leads to and encourages the development of individuality in a writer- which is good if you specialise in blogging about some particular area of technical interest, not so good if you continue to refine your sense of expectation in a relationship in public!

Keep it up,
Mark.