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orchid52
56 posts
12/27/2007 4:56 am

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1/20/2008 6:26 pm

当你爱的人不爱你的时候--When you love people who do not love you


你爱的人不爱你的时候 ---献给所有得到过所爱却又失去所爱的人,给从未得到所爱的人,给因为仍旧爱着,于是选择自欺欺人的人。这,是一面镜子,勇敢面对,勇敢放弃,勇敢重新开始。
当他不爱你的时候,无论过去他是否爱过后来却忘了,又或者是否是从未爱过。当你无法成为他心里的那个人的时候,他的心便不会记得你。虽然他知道你深爱他,但他宁可选择装作是不知道。
当他不爱你的时候,请不要在你不开心,或者是遇到麻烦而彷徨的时候去打搅他。他那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。也许他会在接到你的电话的时候,淡淡地安慰你几句,却也仅此而已.他会说:“好,不过我现在有点事情。晚点的时侯我给你电话。”而你这时千万不要当真,他只是找了个不是很高明的理由来搪塞你。请不要真的去等,不要骗自己。
当他不爱你的时候,请不要与他讲你的琐事,也许此刻,你不过是希望让彼此更熟悉一些。只是,他却无暇更是没有兴趣去了解你,你的生活,你的过去,你的长处短处与他又何干?即使讲了。他也很快会忘记的,就如他忘记你的生日,你的地址,你的电话一样。没有爱,于是你注定挤不进他的生命。即使,你要的哪怕只是一个很小很小的角落。
当他不爱你的时候,请不要在他的面前流眼泪,不要在生病的时候告诉他。他无法给予你照顾和关心。至多是同情一下而已, 请骄傲的你,不要放弃本来属于你的骄傲。虽然太多的人,在爱的面前丢失了太多。连站起来的勇气都没有。何来骄傲?只是,要记得,只有真爱自己的人,才会真正的去疼惜你.
当他不爱你的时候,你的爱便是他的负担。请不要去计算自己的付出,不要希望有什么回报。爱着不爱自己的人,本身便是没有回报的。不要计较对与错。这样会快乐些。要记住,你与他之间的爱,是单方面的,你用心,他无心。所以,也不要怪他。因为也许他也想做好一些。对你不要那样的冷漠。只是,爱一个人,对一个人好。本来就是一种本能。对不起,他没有这样的本能。
当他不爱你的时候,请不要失去自己的自信。因为爱一个人,并非他的优秀,而只是一种感觉。他让你有这样的感觉,于是你爱他。同样,他不爱你,也并非你不优秀。优秀,不是爱的理由。看看还有那么多爱自己的人,淡淡地微笑一下,也是异样甜美的。
当他不爱你的时候,也一定要祝福他。有了爱,便不该有恨。爱是美好的。恨却丑陋。何必让生命中最美好的东西化作丑恶呢?也不要觉得不公平。关于离去。他失去的是一个爱他的人,而你失去了一个不爱你的人,却得到了一个重新生活,重新去爱的机会。
当他不爱你的时候,请轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖,轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。
当他不在你身边的时候,亲爱的。请你深深呼吸,一生的路上,铺满了爱的花蕾,总有那么一朵属于你,不是安慰你。而是,这是生生世世早已注定的。相信我。也相信你自己吧!
When you love people who do not love you all the time - written off by the love they have lost a loved one, to have never been loved, as to love remains, so choose self-deceiving people. This is a mirror, confront it, courageously give up, brave new beginning.
When he does not love you, in the past whether he love later forgotten, or have never been whether love. When you can not become the person his heart when his heart would not remember you. Although he knows that you love him, but he would prefer not pretending to know.
When he does not love your time, please do not you unhappy, or have trouble and the loss of time to disturb him. He is not where you should place at the moment. Perhaps he will be receiving your phone, a few faintly to comfort you, but it is just this. He said: "Well done, but I am now a little thing. Later date when the telephone Hou I give you." And you Do not take it seriously at this time, he not only found a very high that you reasons to stall. Please do not really to wait, do not deceive ourselves.
When he does not love your time, please do not speak with him your chores, perhaps at the moment, but you hope that some more familiar with each other. But he has no time is not interested to understand you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses, he Gan? Even talked about. He also will soon be forgotten, as he forgot your birthday, your address, your telephone. No love, then you do not doomed to squeeze into his life. Even if you want even if only a small corner of the small.
When he does not love your time, please do not cry in front of him, not to tell him when sick. He could not give you care and concern. At most, only about sympathy, please proud of you, you are not to give up the pride. Although too many people in the face of lost love too much. Even have the courage to stand up no. How proud? However, we should remember that only love themselves, be true to dearly loving you.
When he does not love you, you love is his burden. Please do not pay to calculate their own, do not have any hope of return. Love do not love themselves, is in itself of no return. Do not care about right and wrong. This will be more happy. Remember, you and the love between him is unilateral, you intentions, he inadvertently. So, do not blame him. Perhaps because he would like to make some. You do not like the cold. Only love one person, a good person. Originally a kind of instinct. Sorry, he has not instinct.
When he does not love your time, please do not lose our self-confidence. Because of love a person is not his excellent, but only a feeling. He would let you have such a feeling, then you love him. Similarly, he does not love you, you do not have is not good. Outstanding, it is not love that reason. There are so many love to see their own people, to smile faintly and also strange sweet.
When he does not love you, he must blessing. With love, we should not have hate. Love is good. Hate is ugly. Why let the best things in life turn into ugly? Should not think that unfair. On the left. He lost a loved his people, and you do not lose one person you love, but get a fresh start in life, to love the opportunity.
When he does not love your time, please gently to embrace the memories, warm, gentle, gentle gaze at the withers.
When he is not close to you, dear. Please deep breathing, and his road covered with a bud of love, there is always one of you, not comfort you. Instead, this is the already doomed. I believe that. Believe your own!

yuyijei 77M

12/28/2007 9:11 pm

确实,在现实生活中应该如此。″尽快结束这种没有结果的爱,以免浪费更多的时间。要知道,这世界上会有很多值得你去爱,也会珍惜你的爱的人!″完全赞同你们的观点。


imhappyforalive 50F

12/27/2007 9:31 pm

千万别对男人付出真情,可以付出真亲情,但决不能付出真爱情,让他们爱你吧,那是他们的错,受伤的永远不再是你啦!

这样,男人们也许会觉得你总是那么有魅力,因为这魅力就来源于你对他的不经意。你可以关心他,尊重他,可以帮助他,维护他。就是不能爱他。

付出真爱,你就会太关注他,把他溶入生命中,当做自已的眼睛一样珍爱,眼睛是搡不进沙子的。。。。

做他的朋友,做他的妻子,就是不能做真爱他的人!


我要学会宽容~~~~塔拉


orchid52

12/27/2007 7:46 pm

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是的,要学会放弃.珍惜爱你的人!
谢谢你浏览.


orchid52

12/27/2007 7:41 pm

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God bless you!
Happy and healthy New 2008 year to you!


orchid52

12/27/2007 7:34 pm

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是的,找一个爱你的,珍惜你的会更幸福!
谢谢你浏览.