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geminipinay 58F
15 posts
9/18/2009 12:06 pm
Alone and lonely


Here I am alone and lonely trying to keep my mind occupied with many activities. Read, write, talk to people, go shopping, walk, eat, exercise, organize things, etcetera. I still feel the emptines in me. I may need a change of ambience, meet new friends? Sigh!

RoadToParadise 51M

9/18/2009 8:24 pm

Geminipinay, you will be O.K. Sometimes emptiness has to take care of itself. There is no quick fix. Just keep doing what you are doing, there is no one action that can make you feel better. While staying busy, stay positive and think about all of the wonderful things God has gotten you through and all of the wonderful people you have met during your life. One thing you can also do that may help is visit people who are worse off than you. Go to a nursing home or something. Just talk to someone who has to sit in their room day after day after day with few visitors. Spreading love during loneliness helps. Also remember that you are in control of your thoughts, if you think that you are lonely, you will feel lonely. Everyone gets lonely at times, even people with hundreds of friends.

Pray to God for some new good friends and just sit back and wait.

I've prayed for you. Rick

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