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Why Do Men Cheat? 为什么男人通奸？ Hope you can understand. I can speak basic chinese but i use translation software for writing. in english 'cheat' = 'adultery' 希望你能理解。我可以说基本的汉语写作，但我使用翻译软件。 在英语里'欺骗'='通奸' 为什么男人通奸？ 财务司充满了单身母亲和离婚的人。不忠是离婚的主要原因。为什么男人的愿望，许多妇女？是男人就'坏'？我为什么要欺骗，当我有一个很好的女朋友？为什么我会吸引很多女性？ 这个职位需要在人类科学的交配习惯看。 人类学分析 1。人类是一种动物种类，所有的动物尝试重现 2。还有数以百万计的物种，但只有少数种类生活伴侣 3。我们灵长类的表兄弟，倭黑猩猩和黑猩猩，是杂交。倭黑猩猩是和平和对性有很多。黑猩猩进行战争并顶级男性谁积极争取女性 4。男性也有人类的灵长类动物的本能是滥交 5。但人类也编的债券（爱）和逗留在一起，使他们能成功地抚养孩子（这需要许多年） 6。在过去的250 000多年的演变，这些本能 7。复杂的文化系统，最近演变（过去50 000年），以创造更多的稳定和培育成功的养育孩子的环境 7。多间单交配交配和冲突（养育子女）是随着人类社会的旧 Why do men cheat? AFF is filled with single mothers and divorced people. Infidelity is a major cause of divorce. Why do men desire many women? Are men just 'bad'? Why did I want to cheat when I had a nice girlfriend? Why am I attracted to many women? This post takes a scientific look at human mating habits. anthropology analysis 1. humans are a type of animal, all animals try to reproduce 2. there are millions of species, but only a few species mate for life 3. our primate cousins, the bonobo and chimpanzee, are promiscuous. bonobo are peaceful and have a lot of sex. chimps engage in warfare and have top males who aggressively fight for females 4. male humans also have a primate instinct to be promiscuous 5. but humans are also programmed to bond (love) and stay together so they can successfully raise (which takes many years) 6. these instincts evolved during the past 250 000 years 7. complex cultural systems evolved recently (past 50 000 years) to create more stable and nurturing environments for successful raising 7. the conflict between multiple mating and single mating (to raise offspring) is as old as human society 现在让我们来看一看在我们的现代城市社会发生。 基本多重交配的本能加上文化和个性的因素结合起来，使男子欺骗。 吸引和机遇 男性与女性常常欺骗同事。他们花费的时间在一起，大企业的问题一起工作。男人和女人一起从自己平凡的家庭分离的世界。男子见同事谁是精心打扮的和充满活力的女性。男人在工作中往往在精心打扮的女职工的权力。 在家庭关系冷却 与此同时，丈夫与妻子或夫妻的斗争感到厌倦。或夫妻失去彼此感兴趣。 寻求刺激的欲望 丈夫是妻子厌倦。与此同时，别的女人是不同的，令人振奋。她可能不漂亮，但她有不同的身体和性格，和对一般沉闷的话题永远不会举行会谈。 功率：富人或有权势的人欺骗比穷人更多，不成功男人 成功的男人可能有较高的睾丸激素，并在商业习惯和妇女的成功。妇女下意识地吸引成功，积极的人。 意志薄弱 男人不是纯粹的动物。我们可以决定做一些事，或没有。在某些时候一个人决定，他希望，外遇身体和精神的快感。 一个完美风暴事件 景点弱婚姻关系的机会在工作中权力关系的权力意志薄弱 这是政治家和商人成千上万的故事。他们是非常有吸引力的女性。最后，他们的基本本能，与许多雌性蚊子交配重写他们的结合，以一名妇女和家庭。 Now let's look at what happens in our modern urban society. Basic multiple mating instinct plus cultural and personality factors combine so men cheat. Attraction and Opportunity Men often cheat with female co-workers. They spend time together and work on big business problems together. The men and women work together in a world separated from their own mundane households. Men see co-worker women who are well dressed and full of energy. Men at work often have power over the well dressed female workers. Cooled Relationship at Home At the same time the husband is bored with his wife or the couple fight. Or the couple lose interest in each other. Desire for Excitement The husband is bored with the wife. Meanwhile the other woman is different and exciting. She may not be beautiful, but she has a different body and personality, and never talks about the usual boring topics. Power: rich or powerful men cheat much more than poor, unsuccessful men Successful men may have higher testosterone, and are accustomed to success in business and women. Women are subconsciously attracted to successful, aggressive men. Weak Willpower Men are not pure animals. We can decide to do something or not. At some point a man decides he wants the physical and emotional thrill of an affair. Perfect Storm for an Affair Attraction + opportunity + weak married relationship + power relation at work + weak will power This is the story of thousands of politicians and businessmen. They are very attractive to women. Finally their basic instinct to mate with many females overrides their bonding to one woman and family. 1。他是一个有特权的人的权利意识？没有他吹嘘考试作弊？他不介意他的行为影响他人？ 2。他是否与妇女大多？没有他做了很多钱？他是对他的工作秘密，不邀请您的办公室吗？ 3。他是很迷人的女人？在一次聚会他是否忽略你和其他人交谈？可他作出的任何借口？ 4。他的朋友：他的朋友大多是单身男性？做他的朋友们与他们的关系问题？是他更感兴趣的是他的男性比你组和家庭？ （同样的逻辑与脂肪：如果您的朋友肥胖和懒惰，你会逐渐成为脂肪也） 77％的男性有作弊的好朋友谁行骗 40％的男性的作弊在工作中遇到的另一个女人 只有12％的人说，另一名女多于妻子的吸引力 只有73％的男性作弊知道其他女人至少一个月 忠告：一对夫妇可以住在一起，如果他们在工作的关系，而且也是对男性的关系，与同事小心。 下一步邮编：孩子在哪里？富裕国家的人口出生率正在下降大幅下降。 1. is he a privileged man with a sense of entitlement? does he brag about cheating on exams? does he not care if his actions affect other people? 2. does he work mostly with women? does he make a lot of money? is he secretive about his work and never invites you to the office? 3. is he very charming with ladies? at a party does he ignore you and talk with everyone else? can he make an excuse for anything? 4. his friends: are his friends mostly single men? do his friends have trouble with their relationships? is he more interested in his male group than you and the family? (same logic with fat: if your friends are fat and lazy, you will gradually become fat also) 77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheated 40% of cheating men met the other woman at work only 12% said the other woman was more attractive than the wife only 73% of cheating men know the other woman for at least a month Advice: A couple can stay together if they work on their relationship, but also are careful about the male's relationship with co-workers. next post: Where are the ? Birthrates in rich countries are falling drastically. |
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爱的真谛 爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈； 爱是不嫉妒；爱是不自夸，不张狂，不作害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。爱是永不止息。（圣经林前13：4-8） Love is patient, love is kind {and} is not jealous; love does not brag {and} is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong {suffered, } does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails; （Bible 1Co13:4- 圣经金句与您共勉！ 愿上帝祝保佑你！新年蒙恩！ 耶稣爱你，愿主祝福你！
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