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Fantasyroom 54F
779 posts
11/26/2007 7:06 pm

Last Read:
12/13/2007 12:48 am

Easy Chemistry Online


Internet dating has entered the daily fabric of our life. More and more people are interested in this way of finding friends or spouses who can share the core values and lifestyle. But many stories shows that it is easier to get the chemistry on line than in real life.

One problem appears to be false advertising ( as we can also see here in Chinesefriendfinder) : someone can describe herself as a sensuous kind person, but in person come off more like a monster in a bad mood.

Another problem is that we can not see something behind the screen when we chat with the other party on line. It seems to me that it is easier to be sweet enough on line than in the real world when people really meet in person.

Of course there are many other problems. So things will always out in the end. It seeming perfet match on-screen may not fly in the real world.

however, many people are still addited to it and will never be tired inspite of those blooding experience they got.

What we can't measure here is chemistry.



Ariande 57M
165 posts
11/26/2007 7:34 pm

chemistry or biology?

are we all just science experiments like Frankenstein?


1968010135
(Hirondelle Carolie)
55F

11/26/2007 9:19 pm

又是英语 呀 我晕

[ COLOR deeppink] 猪的智慧是在吃的时候比较专注

猪的幸福是在睡的时候比较踏实

沉默是猪的语言天赋


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
11/27/2007 1:30 am

    Quoting Ariande:
    chemistry or biology?

    are we all just science experiments like Frankenstein?
As to "chemistry" here, I refer to the process in which the emotion changes.

Aren't we the objects of science experiments? To some degree, I think "yes".


ChineseZD 38M

11/29/2007 6:33 am

我得学英语啦~! ..哎

Ps:抽刀断水水常流..一笑才能解千愁..
开心地段.. 有空去坐坐~!!^^

ㄝ怪岩弦 ; `ㄝ `怪岸弦` .~`ㄝ
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`` 忿岸岱怪拖怕怪岩岱 ;/ `拖 杗 秀禿.杓
ㄝ彿岩彼彿披忽弩岩忽/岱拓 `. 秀究


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
11/29/2007 9:18 pm

    Quoting ChineseZD:
    我得学英语啦~! ..哎

    Ps:抽刀断水水常流..一笑才能解千愁..
    开心地段.. 有空去坐坐~!!^^
好孩子! 呵呵


mx2323 58M

12/7/2007 12:59 am

Yes, the Internet appointment enters our life, more and more thepeople are interested to find like this can share the core value andthe life style friend or the spouse, but, writes to our reality life has section of distances, specially at the Internetappointment, the person and person's quality difference is very far,therefore, I approved chats on-line. It even more is easy is enoughsatisfied on-line compared to in the real world when the peoplepersonally truly meet.

The love, forever sparkles in a brightest place!


mikesignman 61M
1 post
12/7/2007 8:42 pm

I think that we are smart enough to "read between the lines"....
i can tell many incompatable immediately...just the way they describe themselves and iterests etc... most important to me is values like previous comment....mutual acceptance, sharing, tolerance, kindness...but especially love....as an action not just a "feeling"
love turned into acts of giving selflessly, helping others.. etc.
..the basics are are still the most important.
selfish,greedy and conceited people always stand out..they cant hide it.


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
12/9/2007 10:23 pm

    Quoting mx2323:
    Yes, the Internet appointment enters our life, more and more thepeople are interested to find like this can share the core value andthe life style friend or the spouse, but, writes to our reality life has section of distances, specially at the Internetappointment, the person and person's quality difference is very far,therefore, I approved chats on-line. It even more is easy is enoughsatisfied on-line compared to in the real world when the peoplepersonally truly meet.
On-line chatting is a good way to communicate, and also a first step to get to know each other. Easy to get the "chemistry" in between.


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
12/9/2007 10:28 pm

    Quoting mikesignman:
    I think that we are smart enough to "read between the lines"....
    i can tell many incompatable immediately...just the way they describe themselves and iterests etc... most important to me is values like previous comment....mutual acceptance, sharing, tolerance, kindness...but especially love....as an action not just a "feeling"
    love turned into acts of giving selflessly, helping others.. etc.
    ..the basics are are still the most important.
    selfish,greedy and conceited people always stand out..they cant hide it.
Yes, I do think that most peopel are honest and kind enough to treat others no matter in person or online.


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
12/9/2007 10:31 pm

    Quoting  :

难道不是重在参与?


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
12/13/2007 12:48 am

    Quoting  :

It is not so easy to find a Mr. Right or a Ms. Right. But you will not be hurt or hurt anyone else if you get the right one. I have no idea about the 3 steps you mentioned , maybe more steps. hehe