女人的傻
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Posted:Jul 8, 2006 9:28 pm
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2006 3:46 am 6213 Views
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有人说女人很傻,其实不然.
女人的傻是因为爱. 除此之外,女人聪明得很.男人根本不是女人的对手, 因为女人对不爱的一切天生充满警惕.
在恋爱之前,女人最爱的是自己.正因为太爱,才做出一些傻得离谱的事.而一旦谈了恋爱,女人就变得有些傻.说恋爱是"迷魂汤",一点也不过分.
不过,有些女人对爱的人傻是傻,却傻得可爱.还有些女人故意傻得让男人同情,从而去征服男人.
细细探究,女人傻与不傻真是一本奇怪的书.翻到与真爱沾边的那一页,女人就傻, 而且真傻.翻过来,只要与真爱无关, 多傻的女人也是假傻.所以,男人不想输给女人,最好的方法就是让她爱你,而且是真爱.
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What Do You Think You Are?
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Posted:Jul 4, 2006 1:43 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2006 11:19 pm 6054 Views
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I have heard so many "flattering" words by men about me so many times like: beautiful, gorgeous, elegant, tender, smart, intelligent, wonderful...
Of course, out of a kind of vanity, I am pleased to hear that. However, I do know that you are not always what others think you are, yet you are not what you think yourself are.
Sure, men have the right to appreciate women and they may have different opinions about the same woman, just depending on how they look at them.
Anyway, you can not hide anything with whatever masks on. Whatever you think of yourself are, be the natural you, and you will always live freely...
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爱流泪的女人
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Posted:Jun 28, 2006 11:44 pm
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2006 12:16 am 6387 Views
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女人爱流泪,自然有她的道理.女人的泪不仅仅只为了生气,愤怒, 怨恨,更多的是为了感动.
一则感人的报道,一个真实的故事,一部浪漫的电影,或一部虚构的小说, 都会让她"黄河决堤".
其实,流泪的女人不一定柔弱!
女人是否刚强,不应该仅仅看她是否会流泪,而应该看她是否真能流泪,真会流泪,看她在流泪后,还能否去感受欢笑的人生.
爱流泪的女人,如同春夏之交的细雨,有她蒙娜丽莎似的朦胧,更有润物细无声的浸透力...
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What Can Be the Reasons to Be and Out of Here in AFF
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Posted:Jun 1, 2006 1:58 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2006 10:59 pm 6613 Views
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Guess each of us has some reasons to be a member here in AFF, either for friends or for marriages. But what can be the possible reasons for you to be out of here? Have you ever thought about this or are you thinking about this?
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Complaints from Foreigners
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Posted:May 29, 2006 6:53 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2006 1:00 am 6766 Views
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Foreign people are getting more and more interested in China and Chinese people. They learn Chinese, study Chinese history, come to China to have a visit, and they do business here, they choose to live here, and even marry Chinese. They like it here in China, yet they complain about something they do not like so often.
I was on a trip not long ago by train. Two old men sat opposite me. They did not talk, but both were reading books in English. Later we started to talk. I knew that they were from Singapore, and they talked both in Chinese and in English. They told me that they like China and had been to China many times. They had been to many places even more than I had. One of them told me that his would marry a Chinese girl some time this year. They could not hide their interests in China, yet they complained now and then about something they thought improper or different from the way they did.
Some of my foreign friends often do so even though they themselves live in China and have married Chinese women.
I have never been abroad. I wonder whether I will complain so often to the local people or not.
Perhaps I will...
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Inspired
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Posted:May 28, 2006 10:54 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2006 8:10 pm 6009 Views
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Do not know the reason why I did not fee like the interest of writing blogs here. I thought to quit and disappear from AFF. But before doing that, I noticed that my blog is now crawing its way up to the top 18 of the most active blogs on the first page. Surprised, but inspired. Happy to know that some people like to read what I put there and like to share some thoughts which seem different in different cultures.
Thank you all for those kind comments and discussions. I will go on to do my share... 
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You Are an Interlude of Others
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Posted:May 21, 2006 10:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2006 1:44 am 6176 Views
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You must feel embarrassed when you fall down on the street suddenly when nearby people laugh at you, and you must think that all the people are looking at you. But actually they have already forgotten all about this. And this is only an interlude in their lives, even not that at all. They simply laugh and forget.
On the journey of our lives, we are simply one scene in other people's eyes. As to the first participation, the first failure, we could have paid no attention to it, not just involved in the mood of loss. And your cry can only reminds others of your inability again. If you just give a laugh, others would forget it.
There is one saying: "We care so much about others' ideas about us when we are 20; we do not care about others at all when 40; and we find that others do not pay attention to us when we are 60." Well, this is not negative, it is the life philosophy ---
learn to look down upon yourself, and you will get on the way without any burden.
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爱情和摔跟头
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Posted:May 17, 2006 9:03 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2006 1:02 am 6540 Views
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初见的时候,她摔了个跟头, "小姐,没事吧,用不用去医院?"
追求的时候,她摔了个跟头, "疼吗?摔在你身上疼在我心里啊!"
热恋的时候,她摔了个跟头, "真美!比杨丽萍的孔雀舞动作还优雅."
情淡的时候,她摔了个跟头, "起来吧起来吧,那么多人看着呢,大平地的也走不稳!"
被甩的时候,她摔了个跟头, "真想在给你丫一脚!" (没说出来) 
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Love Is a Flowing River
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Posted:May 14, 2006 8:57 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2006 1:02 am 7382 Views
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Many people including those here in Chinese FriendFinder have been searching for eternal love. Does eternal love exist? Or is it just a myth?
There are many real stories we know that can prove that love is really changeable. The most solid love can not become still water, it is not a solid point on the way of our life, but a flowing river. One woman writer from Japan once said: " The moving of one's heart is normal, if not, abnormal. He is a idiot if his heart is not movable when as a , but he will have the symptom of getting old when grown up. There have been many times that we change in the interests of playing and in choosing clothes since we were young. It is because of these changes that our life can make progresses in spirit and material ... People take it for granted that the love between couples is unchangeable. But, with such changeable heart in games and clothes, how can it moves without any sensitive to the life which has direct connection with us?"
We have to admit that the contents and roles in love in real life is changeable, unpredicted, which proves that love can not be still, it is changeable. Love can not only be beautiful, yet, it contains betray and hurt. Of course many of us believe that love is beautiful and eternal as it is described in romantic movies, and they repeatedly play the roles of betrayer and victims ...
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"满汉全席"
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Posted:May 14, 2006 7:18 pm
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2006 12:34 am 6417 Views
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上天赐给男人与女人不同的天性. 女人温柔而美丽;男人刚强,果敢,负责.各自拥有不同的特质.如果能从异性身上获取一点性格或心理不同的因素,以阳补阴,或以阴补阳,阴阳互动,则收益多多.
人们在结交朋友时,既有同性朋友,也有异性朋友.有人说: 结交异性朋友,不像嚼泡泡糖,越嚼越没味儿;也不像吃臭豆腐,闻着没感觉,吃着满有味道.交异性朋友,是满汉全席,色,香,味俱全.与同性朋友交往,得到的是乐趣;而与异性朋友交往,体验到的是情趣.与同性朋友交往,常常能得到行为上的支持;而与异性朋友交往,更多的是能获得心理的满足.
如果能以自然心态去结交异性朋友,你的生活就会多一道另你流连的风景...
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