女人情感上的的小气
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Posted:May 9, 2006 9:03 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2006 5:20 am 7498 Views
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男人都说女人小气.女人的小气无非是表现在钱与情感方面.与钱相比,女人更小气的是情感.女人的情感帐比钱帐记得清.尽管嘴上不说,冷不防泄露几句真让胆小的男人不寒而立.
有个老太太,已经70多岁了,她不但记得50多年前的一次宴会,也记得她当时穿的什么衣服,而且还能清清楚楚地描绘宴会上她的女友如何与她当时的男友套近乎.这男人最后死于战乱.但她始终没有原谅他,到现在她还说他活该.是他背叛了她而受到的惩罚.对她的女友,几十年她都耿耿于怀.尽管一直都有来往,却从没停止找些机会说些讽刺话.要知道,那男的和那女的从来就没恋爱过,更没上过床.他们当时的亲近,刺伤了她的心,她带着这个"伤痛"折磨了自己一辈子.
现代女人是不是也有新的情感之痛?她们会不会也像这老太太一样牢牢记住男人的"伤害"?男人在情感上最好三思而行,要不然几十年后也有个老太太来字字句句地声讨你的不是. 
难怪有人说: 情愿欠男人的命债,也不欠女人的情债. 
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Sitting Still in My Fantasy Room...
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Posted:May 8, 2006 10:04 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2006 10:11 pm 6898 Views
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Sitting still in my fantasy room with the door and window open, I saw a person appeared as sunshine that sneaked its way in and sent unexpected warmth upon me. I basked in this delight, dreaming, for years... But then, it changed. That sunshine became alternately rain and wind and cool breezes, and topsy-turvy gusts that upset my furniture and sent my pictures on the walls all askew. I wanted so much to close the window and slammed the door and slapped my hands together in that brisk motion that said, 'enough of this nonsense'. At this moment I felt fearful and wanted to cover up the fear with the most wicked of all tonics: rationalization.
I had not been so good at thinking about the rationalizations of things when in love. It seemed to me that the rationalizations were the lies - the truth would seem, well, unseemly.
Anyway, now I want to try this time, to think in a rationalized way. I will protest the weather and shut it out and forget that in minutes, days, hours - that same annoying wind of fearsome gusts can turn back into that sunshine that first warmed and beguiled me. I can remember someone's urge to become a student of the weather and simply watch it unfold. Welcome the rain and wind, knowing it will not harm me and besides, will soon pass. If I can manage to keep the door open, the rain will dry up and the winds will settle. And then I can still look out again and see those rays which first caught me. I might marvel how it all changes while I have sat still.
Sitting still in my fantasy room...
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你的眼神 -- 给某君
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Posted:May 5, 2006 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2006 8:38 pm 7024 Views
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看到你的眼神,
想起蔡琴的
那首老歌:
象一阵细雨洒落我心底, 那感觉如此神秘.
我不禁抬起头看着你, 而你并不露痕迹...
看不到你的脸,却只看到你的眼.
那是智慧的眼,能把这世界看穿;
那是恋人的眼,充满忧伤与眷恋;
那是关怀的眼,带来无尽的温暖;
那是幽默的眼,让读你的人畅怀;
那是神秘的眼,引无数蜂蝶留连...
不问你是谁,只看你的眼;
你的世界想必也期待 --
我的陪伴...
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Balance -- the Key to the Dilemma
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Posted:May 4, 2006 4:08 am
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2006 8:39 pm 6616 Views
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" To be, or not to be, that is the question", this is the most typical dilemma Hamlet was in that we know from Shakespeare's play.
Yes, there are many moments in our life that we are in dilemma: moments that we're trapped in an environment that we don't want to be involved in; moments that we're sick and tired of our job that we feel like puking every time someone mentions our work; moments that we're depressed to be with people we dislike; moments that we're mad and frustrated over the tinies thing that disturbs our life and emotion; moments that we hate the world for all the misery it has brought upon us that really not...
How do we solve this?
Balance is the key.
Dream and take some positive action to move you toward your goals. Take it one step at a time. But while you're slowly crawling into the long journey to success, be patient and be as enthusiastic as possible. Don't hurry up too much that you totally forget how to enjoy life.
Life is a journey. If you are ready for it, just start it with the courage and desire to improve your life. Survive and go through it with persistence, enthusiasm, and positive thinking. Finish it with a resounding bang of accomplishment and with the desire to help others succeed as well.
Then you will lead a life that you have always dreamed of... 
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"坏"男人与"坏"女人
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Posted:May 2, 2006 2:04 am
Last Updated:May 31, 2006 3:21 am 7459 Views
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时下流行"男人不坏,女人不爱",于是男人便肆无忌惮,甚至装出"坏"男人的形象,耍尽伎俩,手段,花招和鬼点子,让你女人想要而要不到.这种坏啊,是毒,女人喝了,没得救.解药在男人手里,他"坏"就"坏"在不给你解药.你要死要活,他乐着哪!
其实啊,男人的"坏"也是女人给"宠"的.
可是,被女人整得惨的男人会说: 如果这个世界上没有几个"坏"女人的话,会少多少乐趣,增添多少寂寞啊!
女人的"坏"这里也是指对付男人的那点儿小把戏,小手腕,小诡计,小精明,让男人晕晕的,痒痒的;像鱼骨卡在男人的喉咙里,无大碍,却有点疼.她们像捉不定的云,飘忽来,飘忽去...
女人的"坏'啊,是男人给"逼"的.
女人"宠"出"坏"男人,而"坏"男人又调教和培养出"坏"女人 ---往复循环!
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A to Z of LIFE
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Posted:Apr 28, 2006 12:41 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2006 4:32 pm 6509 Views
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Life is ADVENTURE dare it.
Life is BEAUTY worship it.
Life is CHALLENGE meet it.
Life is DREAM realize it.
Life is ENDURANCE cope with it.
Life is FRAGRANCE smell it.
Life is GAME play it.
Life is HEAVEN take it.
Life is INITIATIVE take it.
Life is JOURNEY complete it.
Life is KEROSENE burn it.
Life is LOVE enjoy it.
Life is MYSTERY unfold it.
Life is NAME find it.
Life is OPPORTUNITY catch it.
Life is PROMISE fulfill it.
Life is QUESTION answer it.
Life is REALITY face it.
Life is SONG sing it.
Life is TIME utilize it.
Life is URGE satisfy it.
Life is VOICE listen to it.
Life is WEALTH acquire it.
Life is X ? solve it.
Life is YEARNING go after it.
Life is ZENITH attain it.
----- From an unknown author
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The Attraction of Sex
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Posted:Apr 27, 2006 6:55 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2006 1:07 am 7506 Views
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It seems that the whole world avoids talking about sex. We have not been educated to learn about it. But when we get to adolescence, we feel that our whole bodies, even the whole lives are full of the desire for sex. So we can see that sex roots deeply in our bodies, which differs from the education of truth and love.
Why is this? What is the attraction of sex?
Men can have different experience in their rutine life -- working, dealing with things and people, earning money for their life, shopping, entertaining, etc. But I dare say that the experience in sex is among the most unforgetable lists. During the process of the experiencing sex, two things we cherish most in our life disaapear: ego and time. We are really get to the stage of "no-mind" and enjoy the perpetual moment.
Well, I am not the advocate exaggerating the experience of sex here. It is part of our life.
How many of you would like to say that you will fall in love with an "asexual"?
Please read Swallow's blog "Lie Down, w/ Your Love & Asexual Unite" first.
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"管妻严"
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Posted:Apr 25, 2006 4:37 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2006 5:09 pm 6499 Views
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人们把怕老婆的男人叫"妻管严",时下这已经不新鲜了. 现在又多了很多"管妻严".
男人管起女人来,比女人还女人. 无论太太走到哪,他们都会步步相随, 或人未到,电话先到,问个不休.
都说男人管女人,是爱的表现,可如果神出鬼没地管你的手脚,甚至管你的思想,你还会幸福地以为那是一种爱吗?
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Fly Our Thoughts
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Posted:Apr 24, 2006 10:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2006 4:12 am 6091 Views
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Saturday afternoon, a sunny day with little breeze, I had a walk outside. When I passed by a large square, I saw many people flying kits there. I could not help stopping my steps forward, just stood there, watching. Those kites high above in the sky coming in various shapes and forms: flat or bowed, box or cellular and semi-rigid or non-rigid, very beautiful. Those people who were flying the kites pulled the other end of the lines to the left or right now and then in order to let them fly right, their faces full of leisure and satisfaction …
How about flying our thoughts into the sky now and then when we feel pressure and desire for freedom and leisure? I was wondering about this suddenly, and thought that would be a great fun, too. It is easy to do without choosing any particular day. Just let them go and fly in the unlimited space of our minds. Of course, we have to hold up one end of the line connected to our thoughts just like flying the kites, control them in our hands, and let them go within our limits. We know clearly that out thoughts have to be back finally to the reality, no matter how far they wander …
Yet, it is inspiring to fly our thoughts into the finer space…
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Does She Have to Be Blind?
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Posted:Apr 23, 2006 5:45 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2006 10:22 pm 6441 Views
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Out of some curiosity, she saw something she never wants to see in his bag, which made her upset. A friend persuaded her to have a talk with him, another friend suggested her to be blind to this. What do you think she should do?
It seems to be a wise choice that you have to be clear in the minds and eyes as well before the establishment of the relationship between men and women, and you have to be blind in the minds and eyes as well once the relationship has been set up in order to keep the steadiness. Many act on this. But what if you were blind when you were in love with the other?
Love is blind? How do you understand this?
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