原创/霓霞醉境
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Posted:Aug 30, 2010 8:18 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2010 8:27 am 4455 Views
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夕阳西斜
似羞得霓霞
映燃了天际纱幕
淡淡的烟云
袅袅升腾于半空之中
缓缓的舒卷着巾袖
美好和感动在心溪缓缓流淌
谱就一曲优美婉约的音乐
伴着清风的曼舞
沉醉在了美奂绝伦的景色间
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女人是男人的家 Woman is a man's home
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Posted:Aug 30, 2010 12:18 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2010 4:54 am 5126 Views
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没有一个好家的男人，心情就会烦躁，寝食无味，就会心怀他想，魂不守舍，甚至有家不归.女人啊，请给男人营造一个安稳温馨的家吧！不论是贫富贵贱，好女人，永远都是男人的定心石，都是男人的好家.宝贝们，真的.
男人有累的时候，需要在女人的臂弯里休憩，打起如雷的鼾声，在梦乡里露出幸福的微笑，只有回到家里，在贤惠的妻子身边才能得到真正的休息.男人在外打拼有受伤害时，需要女人精心呵护，用爱的柔情去抚慰他的伤口，轻轻舔去他身心的疼痛.宝贝们，真的.
男人并不时刻都坚强，也有脆弱的时候，男人脆弱的时候，需要女人用关心和鼓励去增强他的自信，为他扬起出征的风帆.撒娇并不是女人的专利，男人有时候也需要在女人面前撒撒娇，希望得到女人的娇宠和疼爱.男人需要一个温馨和谐的家，家庭和谐了，男人回到家心情愉悦舒畅.再次远航也会信心百倍，满怀希望.如果回到家遇到的是冰锅冷灶，甚至是冰冷冷的脸，男人就会心灰意懒，甚至失望沮丧.如果遇到电闪雷鸣，狂风暴雨，那他就只好逃离了.宝贝们，这也是真的.
我们都是父母生养的，父母的养育之恩比海深比山高，因此男人有孝敬照顾赡养父母的责任与义务，宝贝们，我们应该支持男人回报感恩父母的举动.否则，他会痛苦终生.因为羊有跪乳之恩，鸦有反哺之义.父母之恩不报，难为人也.男人也有缺点和不足，也有犯错的时候，他犯了错，我们喋喋不休的指责与谩骂，不但教育不了他，还会使他犯更多的错误.宝贝们，这时需要给他宽容与谅解.
俗话是，男人是耙耙，女人是匣匣，不怕耙耙没齿，就怕匣匣没底.我想，这话有两层含义，一是男人在外打拼，挣的钱交要交给女人保管，女人则要计划着花；二是女人这个“匣匣”，也就是她心里要知足，女人心底不知足，男人只能沦为挣钱的机器或女人的奴隶，终会被钱财所累，直至累的精疲力竭，病痛缠身.有人说，一个成功男人背后，一定有一个默默无闻，无私奉献的妻子，也就是说，妻子是男人的坚强后盾，如果男人在前方冲锋陷阵，而后方空虚缺乏有力的支持，男人的奋斗就会弹尽粮绝，灰心泄气，最后以失败告终.女人是男人的家，是男人心系想念为之向往的地方，失去女人的男人，就会绕树三匝，无枝可靠.抽刀断水水更流，举杯消愁愁更愁.宝贝们，真的.
男人是一个家的顶梁柱，女人是一个家的坚强后盾.如果男人不争气，家是无望的；如果女人不娴熟达理，家是失败的：所以说互相体贴，互相理解是最重要的.当女人失落的时候，男人应该奉献臂膀做依靠.当男人遇到挫折的时候，我们应给予体谅，温柔，而不是唠叨，暴躁，大发雷霆.每个幸福的家庭中，都有一对懂得珍惜彼此，宽宏大量的夫妻.真诚的祝愿天下所有的家庭幸福美满到永远！
Not a good family man, the mood will be irritable, eat or sleep and tasteless, they heart, he thought, down from the clouds, or even return home. Woman, ah, give a man to create a secure and warm home! Both rich and poor, good woman, always centering stone men are men of good family. The , really. Men are tired, need a woman's arms, sitting, playing thunder The snoring, the sleep in a happy smile revealed only back home, in the virtuous wife around to get a real rest. men out there working hard by injuries, the need for well-woman care, with love, tenderness to soothe his wounds, gently lick to his physical and mental pain. the , really. men are not strong at all times, but also vulnerable, men vulnerable time, need to use care and encourage women to boost his confidence for his Raising Expedition Sailing. 撒娇 patent is not a woman, men sometimes need a woman needed to blow off in front of Johnson, want a woman spoiled and love. a man needs a warm and harmonious family, family harmony, and men feel good comfortable home. once again voyage also will be brimming with confidence, full of hope. If the home is encountered ice cold pot stoves, and even icy cold face, man will be dispirited, disappointed and even depressed. If you encounter lightning storm, then he had to flee a. the , this is true. We are all parents give birth to parents of raising the En Bihai deep higher than the mountains, so men have honor to take care of maintenance responsibilities and obligations of parents, the , we should support the man thanks the parents return move. Otherwise, he will pain for life. because the sheep have to kneel milk Well, Jay has feeding meaning. kindness of our parents do not report, make life difficult for people. men have weaknesses and shortcomings, there are mistakes, he made a mistake We talk endlessly of the accusations and abuse, not only education, not him, would make him make more mistakes. the , then he needs to tolerance and understanding. saying goes, the man is harrow rake, women cartridge box, not afraid of rake No rake teeth, afraid not the end of cartridge box. I think these words have two meanings, one man out working hard, earning pay to keep to the woman, a woman will have to plan a flower; second woman this "box box "that is content with her heart to a woman at heart I do not know enough, men can become money machine or a slave woman, the money will eventually be exhausted, tired and exhausted up, pain and illness. It is said that a successful man behind, there must be an unknown, selfless wife, that is, the wife is a man of strong backing, if the man in the front of the vanguard, but the lack of strong support behind the emptiness, the struggle will be gunned men, disheartened and hopeless, Finally, end in failure. woman is the home of a man, a man whom yearning heart miss the place, losing a woman's man, will juke Sanza, no sticks and reliable. Choudao the flow of water, toast Xiaochou worry more worry. the , really. men are pillars of a house, a woman is a strong backing at home. If the men fail to live up to expectations, home is hopeless; if a woman is not skilled up to management, home is a failure: So considerate with each other and mutual understanding is most important. When a woman lost time, men should do to rely on dedicated arm. When a man setbacks, we should be given to understanding, gentle, not nagging, angry, furious. Every happy family , there are a pair of treasure each other, generous couple. sincere best wishes for the world to all the family happy forever!
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多少男人懂得这个道理多少男人懂得这个道理 Watch Post | Post a comment
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Posted:Aug 29, 2010 11:45 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2010 7:49 pm 5171 Views
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女人是爱不坏、疼不坏、宠不坏的!相反女人只会被气坏、被打坏、被冷落坏的!
Woman is not bad love, pain is not bad, not bad pets! Opposite would be furious woman, were broken, were left out bad!
善良的女人都是敏感的动物，男人对女人的那份关心和体贴完全是润物细无声的生活细节。有时只是问问女人肚子饿不饿；有时只是鸡婆地询问女人为什么没有笑容；有时只是简单地将女人的身体挡在风雨之后。而其实每个为人妻子的女人需要的关爱就存在于这些细微和琐碎之中，她们是很容易满足的。
Good women are sensitive animals, men on women's share of concern and caring is completely moisten things silently details of life. Sometimes, just ask the woman you hungry; sometimes only gods to ask why women do not smile; sometimes simply to block a woman's body in the storm. Actually each man love his wife, a woman needs to exist among these minor and trivial, they are very easily satisfied.
女人们的感性决定了她们对于男人的每一次宠爱都会深刻的感悟，她们的心灵上都会受到很大的振撼，女人们会因为男人们的宠爱而感恩，然后再怀揣着这样一颗感恩的心去面对尘世，所以说女人是宠不坏的!
Women's emotional decisions of their pet for every man will be a profound sentiment, their soul will be greatly shaken, the women because of the favors men Thanksgiving, and then carries with it a Thanksgiving heart to face this world, so that women are not bad pets!
女人，包括那些外表坚强的女人，内心也都是柔弱的，她们也是需要男人来关注、呵护的。她可能不会在乎你买了多少东西给她，但却会永远记得你那体贴的话语、关心的眼神，她在厨房忙碌的时候，你从身后送来的一个拥抱会让她觉得幸福甜蜜，你们过马路的时候，站在左边的你紧紧握住她的手，不论是什么年纪，都会让她觉得安全……
Women, including women who look strong, are also weak heart, and they also need men to pay attention, care of. She may not care how much you buy things for her, but you will always remember the words that thoughtful, caring eyes, she was busy in the kitchen, you sent a hug from behind makes her feel happy sweet, When you cross the street, standing on the left hand you hold on tightly to her, no matter what age, will make her feel safe ... ...
世上的女人很多，美丽的、温柔的、聪明的、可爱的……但无论什么类型的女人，期待幸福的心情都是一样的。她们都在等待着一个男人的出现，等待着这个男人对她们好。
Many of the world's women, beautiful, gentle, smart, cute ... ... but no matter what type of woman, looking forward to a happy mood is the same. They are waiting for the appearance of a man, waiting for good to them this man.
其实，女人期待的那种好，是件很简单的事情。男人宠女人，不需要如火山火热，不需要如海浪汹涌，细水长流就足够让她幸福一辈子。因为她们只希望自己的男人不要因为忙碌而忘记她的生日，想听他在耳边说，宝贝，你快乐吗？她只希望做家务累的时候，他能送上一杯水说，宝贝，歇会吧；她只希望害怕或者孤独的时候，男人在身边搂着她的肩膀坚定的对她说，别怕，有我……
In fact, the kind of women look good, is a very simple matter. Pet women men do not need such as volcanic hot, do not need, such as the turbulent waves, steady and sufficient for her happy life. Because they want their men not only because of busy and forget her birthday, want to hear in his ear said, baby, you happy? She just want to do home tired, he could send a glass of water, said, baby, Xie Hui bar; her only hope when scared or lonely men around arms around her shoulders in a firm said to her, do not be afraid, there is I ... ...
是的，有的时候，爱意是在不经意间流露的。可能男人自己没有感觉，可是女人却一字一句的记在了心底，而且她们还会用更多的爱恋回报你。
Yes, sometimes, love is inadvertently revealed the. May be a man he did not feel, but the woman was a single word of note in the bottom of my heart, and they will reward you with more love.
每个女人最大的心愿是什么？
是能被懂得，被珍惜!
女人最需要的是什么？
是爱，是宠爱，是欣赏!
女人活着是为了什么？
是寻找一个真心待她，爱她，时时刻刻都在为她着想的男人!
这就是女人们活着最踏实、最美丽而且永远都不会后悔的最甜蜜的理由！
如此，女人又怎会被宠坏？
可是，这个世界上究竟有多少男人能懂得这个道理，并能体现在行动上呢？
Each woman's greatest dream? That can be understood, to be treasured! Women most in need of? Is love, is the favorite, is appreciated! Woman alive is for? Is looking for a genuine treat her, love her all the time for her sake man! This is the woman who lived the most realistic, most beautiful and never regret the most sweet reason! So, how can a woman be spoiled? However, in this world, how many men can know this truth, and to reflect it in action?
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原创/沁人心乐
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Posted:Aug 29, 2010 11:01 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2010 8:03 pm 4117 Views
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沏一杯沁香的茉莉花茶，欣赏着那朵朵白花盛开在明净的透明玻璃杯中，小口的轻轻品味着齿颊留香的香茶， 坐在白色的舒适的藤椅上， 静静地听着如流水潺潺地悠扬快乐的音乐，每一根的琴弦的拨动发出的美妙之音，都会恰到好处落在心键之上，惬意愉悦美好感动如缓缓流淌的清泉之水，滋润营养了全身每一个细胞和神经。此刻似乎忘记了一切烦恼和压力，只留下一个清净优雅的一个人儿，独享着这份美好。
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原创/夕霞彩韵
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Posted:Aug 29, 2010 10:56 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2010 6:00 am 4770 Views
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余辉霞染映锦阳,
夕彩天幕霓纱裳
山接湖连波潋滟,
秀怡佳境月羞藏。
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做一个让男人留恋的女人
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Posted:Aug 28, 2010 8:01 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2010 2:15 am 4444 Views
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一个让男人留恋的女人，
不需要多么美艳，而是需要一些特质
一、赏心悦目
不是每个女人都有幸是美女，但也有幸不是丑女。
其实，女人吸引男人的地方，首先是赏心悦目，而不是美丽。
因为有些女人过于注重自己的美丽，反而总是与环境不那么协调。
赏心悦目，就是尽可能把自己打扮得很美好，干净、精致、时尚、
和谐的搭配、令人愉悦的颜色。
让男人看到，就能联想到美好的生活。这就是赏心悦目的魅力，
一个让男人联想到美好的女人，多么值得男人珍惜！
赏心悦目，几乎每个女人都做得到，“世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人”，
一个女人，如果 对于自己得形象懈怠了、放松了，邋遢了，那么她得魅力也就减弱了
看看莫文蔚、秦海璐，虽然不是倾国姿色，
却也是尽可能让自己显得美丽，所以看起来也就美丽了
赏心悦目，只是一项简单得工作，确是需要长期坚持得一种品质!
二、矜持
最有女人气质的体现，就是矜持了。
矜持要怎么做，很简单，一举手、一抬头的犹豫，
说话前的思索，走路时的一点小心，
听到笑话过后的慢一拍的微笑，无不体现了女人的矜持。
矜持，就是女人要把自己当做美女一样看待的些微骄傲，
一种若有所思的慢一拍，一种小心翼翼的自我珍重，
一种不轻易流露的保留矜持，体现了女人的修养。
一个懂得矜持的女人，往往最能够激发男人呵护女人的英雄情节，
能够体现男人的风度，能够让男人有强烈的疼爱这个女人的欲望 !
三、情趣
这个就比较难说清楚，情趣，应该知情识趣，
要懂得男人的幽默、懂得男人的快乐
情趣需要一些天分，但是后天的修炼也比不可少。
要会讲一些笑话，要能带动气氛，大家都期望你能唱歌的时候能够唱得很好，
玩得时候要能玩得开心，男人不快乐得时候，能够带动他快乐
情趣，需要一些知识，需要一些幽默，需要一点小资，还需要一些发自内心得快乐
情趣，可以很高尚，也可以有些低俗，但是不可以没有
一个有情趣得女人，往往是一个快乐得女人，
至少也是一个能够创造快乐得女人，这样女人，男人乐而往之，怎能不留恋？
四、平和
这个社会变化太多，我们不要让自己的心也荒来荒去，
懂得保持内心平和的女人，
就象闹市中的一间静谧的茶馆，让人忍不住想歇足休息。
平和的女人，要求不是那么多，不会动不动就嫉妒别人的富贵和幸运。
虽然同样感慨社会多变、人生无常，平和的女人却懂得守住内心的一点淡泊
平和的女人，要求不是那么多，不会给自己很多压力，
当然，也不会给男人很多压力，所以，平和的女人，总是让男人很轻松，
能够成为男人心灵休憩的港口
平和的女人，没有那么执着，不会歇斯底里，也不会哭天抢地
如果，她看到自己心爱的男人，和别的女人在一起，不会抢上前去大闹一通，
而是，静静地，坚决地、慢慢远离那个男人
平和的女人，懂的保护自己。不会让自己那么容易受到外界的干扰
所以，平和的女人，总能让男人感觉到安宁、放松，
让男人在伤心的时候、疲倦的时候甚至太过激动的时候，都想要和她在一起
平和的女人最懂得温柔 !
五、坦然
知道自己那里好看，那里不好看，知道自己有什么优点有什么缺点，
觉得这些很正常，就是一种坦然
知道男人有那些好，那些不好，也觉得这很正常，不苛求完美，就是坦然
明白一个衣冠楚楚的男人，也会有委琐的时候，
并不觉得这很可耻，泰然 处之，也是坦然
坦然的女人不卑不亢，不会谄媚、也不会自卑。
坦然的女人，深刻理解事实无常，
明白生活的变化往往不是由自己能控制的，
所以悲伤的时候不会刻意隐藏，
快乐的时候懂得充分享受
这样的女人，活的很清醒，也很真实
坦然的女人，努力但却不异想天开，懂得承受
不压抑，不做作，自然舒服，让男人觉得很真切，
让男人觉得“原来生活就是这个样子，也没有什么不好”
六、善良
善良不是看到路边的乞丐给他2块钱，
也不是一次又一次的忍受男人的背叛而总是原谅他，
善良不是付出、不是软弱更不是退让，
而是当你可以伤害别人的时候、而不伤害别人的一种品质
当你和他分手的时候，善良是你不会辱骂他、报复他、决不放手，
而是，挥挥衣袖，转身离开
当朋友家庭出现闹剧的时候，善良就是你在幸乐祸的同时，
懂得伸出双手提供帮助
善良就是你从不主动伤害别人，不会纠缠不休，懂得适可而止
善良就是不会利用男人的弱点来攻击他，虽然你知道他都有什么弱点
善良就是你们分手后，财产一人一半，而不是把他驱逐出门，一分不给
善良的女人，才会在分手后，仍然告诉孩子那个男人是他的爸爸，而不是仇人
善良的女人，才懂得为自己留一条后路，不把事情做绝
善良的女人，才不会让男人担心害怕，男人对她才会念念不忘。
在这样的女人面前，男人才不会有戒心，才能够觉得安全 !
七.自然
自然的女人就是,
不会为了让人觉得矜持而故做矜持状；
不会为了给别人淑女的感觉而东施效颦.
八、精致
精致的女人就象一件高档的珠宝，熠熠生辉、细腻璀璨,让男人爱不释手
精致，不一定就需要高档的衣服、首饰或其他道具来塑造，更多的是一种生活态度
切一壶茉莉花茶的时候，放2颗玫瑰、加一勺蜂蜜，是一种精致
品茶的时候，知道用自己心爱的瓷杯、或者透明的玻璃杯装上，
不是用一次性纸杯，是一种精致
抄好的青菜，用细白瓷光洁的盘子装上，摆出秩序的样子，是一种精致
每晚睡觉前，仔细地在镜前端详自己，
并且高兴地想“我还是美丽的”，也是一种精致
知道施华洛世奇的水晶和地摊上的水晶，有何区别，并不一定去买，是一种精致
知道在宴会上该穿礼服、工作时该穿套装、睡觉时该穿性感睡衣，是一种精致
精致的女人，注重品质、细腻，让男人觉得高尚
精致的女人，美好、珍贵，让男人感觉到来之不易，必须好好珍惜
精致的女人,才懂得享受生活,才能够承受富贵,
才不会当男人富贵的时候想要放弃她!
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九.聪慧
聪慧，和女人的学历并无绝对关系，
而是一种理性，一种思维方式
聪慧得女人，不以卖弄自己得学历和知识为荣，而是更加注重运用
聪慧得女人，懂得辨别男人，知道什么是好、什么不好，
不会把心血浪费在不适合得男人身上（聪慧如黄蓉，就知道把郭靖打造成一代大侠，
而不是逼着他只过小日子）
聪慧得女人，知道什么样得朋友值得交，什么样得人不可接触
聪慧，是一种洞悉世事得感悟，清醒、塌实，同时，乐在其中 !
十.真诚
对帮助你的人,真诚的道谢,
而且要看着他的眼睛,
让他能感受到你的真诚;
对不想接受的约会,真诚的谢绝,
不需在去绞尽脑汁找寻借口!
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原创/港湾在哪？ Original / Harbour where?
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Posted:Aug 27, 2010 8:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2010 9:30 pm 3888 Views
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云儿倦了，休憩在空的胸怀中；鸟儿疲惫了，飞回那温暖的小巢了；心儿累了，
可哪里是静泊的港湾呢？
Cloud tired, sitting in an empty mind; bird tired, fly back to the warm little nest; heart tired can be parked in the harbor where it is quiet?
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原创/爱到深处 The original/loves the deep place
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Posted:Aug 27, 2010 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2010 2:15 am 3846 Views
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清风细雨无声，
飘花漫舞无音。
爱到深处无语，
情到深处无言。
Cool breeze drizzle silent, Flutters the flower to inundate the dance no word. Likes the deep place not having the language, Sentiment to deep place taciturnity.
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原创/夏天的情思 Original / Love in the summer
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Posted:Aug 27, 2010 7:44 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2010 8:28 am 3848 Views
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夏天的阳光
火一般地热情
用那温柔和灼热的红唇
深情的吻着羞涩的面颊
夏天的清风
飘逸而温馨
吟着婉约和浪漫的情诗
轻抚着心灵的琴弦
夏天的雨滴
蘸满了无声的笔墨
写满了思念的文字
也打湿了爱人的眼睛
Summer's sunlight Fire generally warm With that gentle and scalding hot red lip Affectionate is kissing the shy cheek Summer's cool breeze Elegant and warm Is reciting composed and the romantic love poem Is caressing the mind string lightly Summer's raindrop Dipped has filled the silent words Has written all over the missing writing Also has moistened spouse's eye
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选择适合过一辈子的人 Kies die persoon deur die lewe
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Posted:Aug 25, 2010 10:19 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2010 8:02 pm 5377 Views
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心理学家认为，判断男女两个人是否适合“牵手”，应考虑以下10个因素：
1、彼此都是对方的好朋友，不带任何条件，喜欢与对方在一起。
2、彼此很容易沟通、互相可以很敞开地坦白任何事情，而不必担心被对方怀疑或轻视。
3、两人在心灵上有共同的理念和价值观，并且对这些观念有清楚的认识与追求。
4、双方都认为婚姻是一辈子的事，而且双方(特别强调“双方”)都坚定地愿意委身在这个长期的婚姻关系中。
5、当发生冲突或争执的时候可以一起来解决，而不是等以后来发作。
6、相处可以彼此逗趣，常有欢笑，在生活中许多方面都会以幽默相待。
7、彼此非常了解，并且接纳对方，当知道对方了解了自己的优点和缺点后，仍然确信被他所接纳。
8、从最了解你、也是你最信任的对方处得到支持的肯定。
9、有时会有浪漫的感情，但绝大多数的时候，你们的相处是非常满足而且是自由自在的。
10、有一个非常理性和成熟的交往，并且双方都能感受到，在许多不同的层面上你们是很相配的。
爱情是追到手的吗？
不是。真正的感情根本不需要追的。两个人的默契，在慢慢将两颗心的距离缩短，在无意识中渐渐靠近彼此。从好朋友到情人，真正的感情是用不了多久的。从你喜欢上他的那一刻起，也许他也在那一刻喜欢上了你。同节奏的爱情往往能奏出最和谐最动听的乐章。
真正的爱情需要什么？需要两个人在一起是轻松快乐的，没有压力。
爱一个人就是毫无保留地付出吗？
不是。每一个人都是一个独立的人，我们首先是属于自己的，我们有思想，我们有个性，而不是把我们的全部都给对方。我们可以有保留，比如你不愿意说的隐私，有秘密的人才是成熟的，不是吗？有时候不说出来反而更好。
外貌和个性哪个更重要？
男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子，25岁以后，会选择和自己性格合适的女子，能和自己一起过日子的人。 喜欢一个人，太急切了，反而不好。一是因为越想得到的越得不到；二是得到了也很难珍惜，来得快去得也快。细水长流一些，爱情会更长久。
相爱容易相处难。相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协，在信任和了解的基础上。没有宽容和妥协，任何两个人都无法相处。
纯纯的爱也许只有一次，但是真爱未必只有一次。时间会抚平一切伤痕。
我们其实是可以爱上很多人的。我们不是喜欢某个人，而是喜欢某种类型的人。先来的人和我们相遇了，于是我们幸福地走到了一起；对于后到的人，只能抱以歉意，同时，祝福他早日找到属于他自己的幸福。 没有谁是我们一生非拥有不可的，爱一个人，很多时候实际上是习惯了这个人
现实和浪漫哪个更重要？
现实。没有现实为基础，浪漫就是空中楼阁。大学校园的爱情往往随着毕业而告终，大多是因为不现实，不在一个城市。 只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人，才会碰撞出最美丽的火花。
分手后我们还可以做朋友吗？
最好不要。剪不断，理还乱。过去了就过去了，我们不是生活在过去，而是现在。爱情不等于生活，只是生活的一部分。
想知道一个人爱不爱你，就看他和你在一起有没有活力，开不开心，有就是爱，没有就是不爱。爱情不是感动，你不是他心目中的理想伴侣，即使一时接受你，将来碰上他心仪的那一位，一样会离开你。有些人情绪容易大起大落，这样的人是很难维持一段长久的关系的。
是否门当户对不要紧，最重要应该是兴当趣对，不然没有共同语言，即使在一起，仍然会感觉到孤独。
持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱，建立在平等的基础之上。任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱，或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。
如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会。莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子；怯懦，却可能使你一辈子后悔。没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华。
你可能习惯与现在的恋人，明明不太喜欢，但在一起久了，习惯使人不太愿做新的选择。人生会面临无数次选择。当给你机会选择时，你一定要谨慎；一旦你做出了选择，就永远不要后悔；拿得起，放得下，该断则断，该忘记的，就把它忘记；该珍惜的，就要把它珍惜。
我们总说：“我要找一个很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。”但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。可是后来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，但是你有没有想过，在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没有发觉而已呢？
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧，他或许已经等你很久了。当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。所有的期待和希望都只有七八分，剩下两三分用来爱自己。如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住，喝酒不要超过六分醉，吃饭不要超过七分饱，爱一个人不要超过八分。
如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：爱一个人，要了解也要开解；要道歉也要道谢；要认错也要改错；要体贴也要体谅；是接受而不是忍受；是宽容而不是纵容；是支持而不是支配；是慰问而不是质问；是倾诉而不是控诉；是难忘而不是遗忘；是彼此交流而不是凡事交代；是为对方默默祈求而不是向对方诸多要求。可以浪漫，但不要浪费，不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。
浪漫的人这样描述与爱人的相逢：千万人当中，在时间的无涯的荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧赶上了。两个人好着的时候，你不妨就这样想吧。如果不好了，你要明白是否和某人在一起，不过是一个再简单不过的概率问题。数千个擦肩而过中，你给谁机会谁就和你有缘分，纵没有甲，也会有乙。别傻等那种想像中的海誓山盟般的缘分了，生活中哪有那么多传奇。别醒着做梦了，难道你忘了艺术虽然来源生活，却还高于生活吗?
Psychologists believe that men and women to judge whether two people fit "hand", should consider the following 10 factors: 1, are each other's friends, without any conditions, in love with each other with. 2, each is easy to communicate frankly with each other can be very open to anything, without fear of being suspected or despise each other. 3, the two have in mind the common ideas and values, and on a clear understanding of these concepts and pursue. 4, both sides believe that marriage is a lifelong process, and the two sides (in particular emphasized that "both sides") are willing to commit themselves firmly in the long-term marriage. 5, when the time of conflict or dispute can be resolved together, rather than wait for later episodes. 6, can get along with each other funny, laugh often, in many ways, life will treat each other with humor. 7, very familiar with each other and accept each other, know each other know when their own advantages and disadvantages, we remain convinced by him to accept. 8, from the most about you is your most trusted each other's office supported the affirmative. 9, sometimes romantic feelings, but most of the time, your relationship is very satisfied and are free of. 10, there is a very rational and mature exchanges, and both sides felt, in many different levels, you are well matched. Love is Zhuidao Shou it? No. True feelings do not need to chase. Two people's understanding, the shorter the distance between two hearts slowly, slowly around each other in the unconscious. From friends to lovers, the real feelings not be long before the. You like him from the moment, perhaps he was also the moment to like you. With the rhythm of love can often play the most harmonious music of the most pleasant. True love What? Need two people together is easier and more enjoyable, no pressure. Unreservedly love a person is to pay it? No. Each individual is an independent, we first own, we have ideas, we have character, and not all of us gave each other. We have reservations, such as you do not want that privacy, there is a secret talent is mature, is not it? Sometimes it is better not say it. Which is more important looks and personality? When young men are like a beautiful woman, 25 years old, and his character will choose the right woman to live together and their own people. Like a person, too hasty, but good. One more not because of the more desired; second is difficult to get the treasure, come and go. Steady and some, love is more lasting. Hard to love easy to get along. The most important thing is to get along tolerance and compromise, in the basis of trust and understanding. No tolerance and compromise, any two people can not get along. Perhaps the only time an innocent love, but love not only once. Time will heal all wounds. In fact, we can fall in love with many people. We do not like someone, but like a certain type of person. First to the people we met, and so we came together happily; for the latter to the people, can only cling to apologize at the same time, wish him a speedy find his own happiness. No one is that we have no non-life, and love a person, often the person is actually used to the reality and romance which is more important? Reality. Not based on reality, is a romantic castle in the air. Campus love often end with graduation, mostly because of unrealistic, not a city. Only the strong points of mutual appreciation of admire each other who will be the most beautiful spark of the collision. We can still be friends after breaking up it? Best not to. Helpless and chaotic. Passed over them, we do not live in the past, but now. Love does not equal life, just part of life. Want to know a person love your, to see him with you have no vitality, it does not happy, there is love, no that is not love. Love is not moved, you are not the ideal partner in his mind, even if temporarily accept you, it will run into his favorite one, they would leave you. Easy to some emotional ups and downs, this person is very difficult to maintain a long-term relationship. It does not matter whether the perfect match, the most important hing when interest should be right, otherwise there is no common language, even together, still feel lonely. Long-lasting love from the heart of true love from each other, built on the basis of equality. No love only madness has loved regardless of their own, or enjoy the benefit of being loved and I do not know true love of people do not have a good ending. If you fall in love, do not easily let go the opportunity. Rash, may make you regret it for a while; cowardice, it may make you a lifetime regret. Did not experience the love of life is not complete, did not experience the pain of love is not deep. Love makes life rich and sublimate the pain to love. You may be accustomed with the present lover, obviously do not like, but with a long time, used to make people less willing to make new choices. Will face numerous choices in life. When given the opportunity to choose you, you must be careful; Once you have made a choice, would never regret it; get affordable, let go, the break is broken, the forgotten, put it forget; the treasure, to make it treasure. We always said: "I love to find a love who will love." But when the other person ask you, what makes love love, you are unable to answer him, because you do not know. Yes, we always thought we would find a people who themselves love love. But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find how innocent they once. If never start, how do you know will love love that individual? In fact, love the feeling of love is to experience a lot of things together until after the discovery. Perhaps everyone wants to be able to find their partner in mind 100 percent, but you have not thought about that in your side will already paid for you was silent a long time, but you do not find more? So, still a closer look at the people around it, he might have been waiting for you for a long time. When you love someone, love to just eight absolute good. All the expectations and hopes are only Qiba Fen, and the remaining two or three minutes to love myself. If you continue to love more, give the other party is likely to pressure for each breath, completely lost the love of fun. So remember, drink no more than six drunk, eat no more than seven full, love a person no more than eight. If you are confused for love, perhaps the following passage can give you some inspiration: love a person, to understand the need to open solution; to apologize also thanks; should admit its mistakes have error correction; should also appreciate the thoughtfulness; is acceptable rather than endure; is tolerant and not condoned; is to support, not dominate; is sympathy, not asked; is talk, not complaints; is memorable and not forgotten; is not sharing everything with each other accountable; is quietly praying for each other rather than many other requirements. Can be romantic, but do not waste, it should not hold hands, not to let go lightly. People, describes the romantic and love to get together again: 10 million persons, at the time is long in the wilderness, neither earlier nor later step, you happen to meet. Well with two people, you may wish to be it. If not good, you have to understand whether someone with, but the probability of a simple question again. Pass in the thousands, to whom the opportunity will come to you and you have a fate, not a vertical, there will be B. Do not be silly to imagine such kind of like the fate of eachother, and life, how can there be so many legends. Do not awake dreaming, have you forgotten the art although the source of life, are still higher than life?
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